Why did Kody Brown say he wants respect, not love?

Kody Brown will join the Special Forces so kids can see he can still do it.

A little story

Kody Brown made it clear in the Season 4 premiere of Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test that his goal was to earn respect more than love.

The 56-year-old reality TV star candidly explained that he came on the show to show himself and his children that he could still do the “impossible.”

What he said

Kody said, “I don’t care if you love me. I care if you respect me.”

He admitted that this may sound “at the risk of sounding sexist,” but respect is important to him.

By completing the first challenge—repelling a helicopter—he proved himself and also helped the team.

What Kody Wants

Kody explained that he took the show as a life pivot, needing a chance for change.

After divorce and family breakdown, his self-confidence had plummeted, and now he wants to regain it.

He believes that sometimes “doing the hard work” shows you’re good at being a man, and that’s the proof he seeks.

Family Relationships and Forgiveness

Three of Kody’s four marriages have ended; he is now with Robyn Brown.

He said this journey is both internal and external—reconciliation with himself and peace with others.

Kody expressed forgiveness, understanding, and hope for future friendships.

The Pressure and the Real Test of the Show

Special Forces requires more than just physical strength, but also mental strength and self-control.

Kody explained that sometimes his body gets tired, but he has to show courage; he also puts himself forward for the team.

This season was shot in Morocco, and the challenges are intense, bringing out one’s true colors.

Final Thoughts

Kody Brown’s move is a personal statement of self-esteem.

He wants his children to see that their father can still push the boundaries.

Regardless of the outcome, this journey marks a new chapter for Kody and a return to self-confidence.